Who is cynthia udoka
May she rest in peace. Thank God dey wer caught. And may God strengthen your family, and especially your mum, during this terrible time. Whatever the facts may be, the most important point is that a young woman has lost her life in the prime of her youth,- no one deserves to die in such a terrible and unprovoked way.
Her family and friends deserve sympathy and respect, not all these sordid allegations. Because that it what it was. She trusted people whom she did not know from anywhere. We must realise that the only people we should trust on social networks are the people we know in real life.
Every other person is just entertainment. They are not our friends. And if we must come in physical contact with people we meet on the internet, we should do so in a very public place far from where we live and show up with a few friends and family.
Such a waste. As for the guys, the death sentence and nothing else. My deepest condolence. As for hateful people that go about soiling peoples names even the dead, pray to God for forgivness or you may fall victim to such thing and good for nothing people like you will give stories of you! Really sad and it could have happened to anybody but may her gentle soul rest in peace,nobody can be trusted…God knows best my simpathy goes to the family and to the women out their be extremely careful in lettin people in easily.
May she Rest in Peace. Soo true ene,its sad how pple judge others. I remember when they moved to ecwa staff n you guys became friends n sister. Its soo sad to know she is gone. May her soul rest in peace. We shuldnt be too fast in judging. God knows it all! Rest on good night dear cynthia. It may have been a nerve gas or sleeping tablets to knock her off. Extremely sad.
May she rest in peace and may God console her loved ones. RIP my dear. The truth is only the deceased can say wat actually happened.
Meaning the other plus were spiteful? How insensitive, hateful and judgmental can people be! Who can understand it. Some would wonder why their prayers never seem answered. Why mercy and favour seem to be strangers to them. So SAD……….. A friend of mine has this habit of taking pictures of places she is, as soon as she arrives there.
Especially when it is a place she has never been before, or it is out of her usual route or routine or if she is meeting anyone there. Both male and female. She take pictures, sends it via bb, text and emails to friends and family. Even when she gets lost, driving or taking a walk, she takes a geo tagged picture of herself and environment and sends it. If she is meeting a guy on a date, she nicely makes an excuse of taking a picture of the two of them together.
She goes all sweet and mushy, saying she wants to preserve the memory of their meeting. If you hear enough excuses she has come up with, with guys ehn, honestly she should collate them and write a book. She is just trying to be safe. I am also trying to adopt that strategy, as I travel for work a lot, and I meet up with so many people, both professionally and personally. Think of the horror they will go through if something happens to you.
Technology, has allowed some people to be found very quickly before harm comes to them, and there is a sense of security, if whomever has evil designs on you knows that people know where you are, and who you are with. May her soul rest in peace,and who ever that remains on earth that still have this kind of motives on social networks,may they receive the wrath of God,it shall never be well with them,they all shall be cut IJN.
A sad story indeed. But what is evidently missing in this whole piece is the authentic report. The write up is too conclusive and there is very little evidence to prove that the event played exactly the way it is been described here. How did they get to know the facebook deletion part of the story and so on? Sounds more like guessing. Indeed investigations should be carried out thoroughly, this will keep people armed with information and prevent them from falling into future traps.
May her soul rest in Peace. People should learn how to sympathize when it comes to issue about the death. Social network is never a bad idea but its left for ones judgement on what use it is to him or her.
Sorry about your loss Aishatu, it seems like she had a great personality. Cosmoris peterson. She z so innocent, so blamish, hw cud pple b so wicked. May hr soul findz rest…, I cry 4u o, Oh BEauty! Its could make even a cat laugh when ppl go on about how they have just 70 friends on face book or how any 1 can conceive the idea that Cynthia a 24 year old was wrong to have developed a salubrious level of trust 4 any 1 she has been in contact with 4 a month.
However in the corner of my mind, it brings a lot of questions on the motive of these criminals when they successfully rob people through carefully planned techniques and a robust ntework flight tickets, hotels, pharmacist etc and then kill them.
I mean what manner of dementia could this be? I pray that true families and friends of cynthia find consolation soon enough…and to our ladies and guys, because this could happen to any1 1st meetings or the 1st 2 are advisable in open places so u can properly develop an opinion of partners and friends through both instincts and perception.
RIP Cynthia.. Never met u but I sure would have loved to. A young girl has dies, you are talking salubrious. Honestly, Nigerians and tact, it must be missing in our DNA. Yes it is wrong for anyone irrespective of age, to trust someone you met online. Such people are not real friends, like someone else mentioned.
They are entertainment, pure and simple. I wish she was found alive, so someone could scold her seriously. If someone had given her the kind of advice Lucy put up, she may be alive today, and I hope someone else reads that, and passes the message across.
I see a lot of young girls foolishly meet up with people they met online. You warn them about it, they call you old school. They tell you this is the Facebook generation, get with the program. So please if you have friends on Facebook, check yourself, and wonder who you are exposing yourself to, and your friends to.
There is no award from mark Zuckerberg for the highest number of friends, so please lets be sensible about it. I pray that her soul rests in peace and that God forgives the culprits. Only God knows why all these things are happening…. Tell me girls,,how do u feel comfortably going to someone u never met for the first time—no matter what the incentives,dont go. Helen's Event Blog. But… How dd d bella got to knw she had a new friend and later she had dem not.
God help us. Social sites are not bad as you say they are. People use them to do different things and it is up to you as a person to make a decision on where to draw the line. Even if you have one friend, that one friend whom you may have known for many years can kill you in your living room.
The truth is that we should all be sensible and responsible cos no one will do that for us but ourselves. Well Spoken. But you never can be too careful even with the ones you meet one on one. I met my husband through facebook but this was after a month of chatting and phone calls. Ephesians Be very careful, then, how you live — not as unwise but as wise…. It is so irritating, to suddenly see a request on your phone, and wonder, who the hell this is.
You decline over and over again, only to have your friend tell you, ah its me, I gave so so and so your PIN. Half the time, it is someone you have never met before. I have warned a few of my friends, never to try it again.
What kind of friend are you. Someone saw your picture as their dp, and automatically, they ask for your PIN, and it is handed out that easily. We just do these things foolishly without thinking. At least ask the person first, if they say no, and it puts you in a difficult position with the person who asked for the PIN. Oh well. My one rule is, send me an email. If you insist on the PIN, oh boy, or oh girl, you are on your own o.
It is very easy to get distracted, and lose all sense of reason when it gets to communicating online. Things you would not do or say to a person face to face or over the phone, you say it online. You can hide behind a computer screen and be Brad Pitt if you want.
Teenage girls are being raped and murdered all over the UK, because of pile they met online. We are adults abeg, use your head. Rukky Jabin Olori. This world is full of Evil, cruelty, hatred, Oh!
What an innocent soul. Before facebook there were serial killers and after facebook there would still be serial killers. Your next door neighbour could kill you, your best friend could kill you,your husband or wife could kill you. Something or somebody will kill you when your time comes. We are all on a journey to our heavenly home. Have a relationship with your God, accept the provision of God so that you will be counted worthy when you come face to face with your God.
Its really sad and my heart goes out to all her family members and friends and I pray the good Lord in his infinite mercies give them the grace to bear her loss. This is why the people are suffering in this nation. I have always said change is for us as individuals , not only for people in positions of authority. So sorry Mrs and Gen. I do not do Facebook, Twittere or whatever and I am not missing anything. I hope this will serve as a lesson to people who divulge sensitive information to people they barely know.
Bankky: Sad, my heart felt for her parent and siblings but those guys who perpetrated this evil should given sad life to live or death sentense too. This is so sad…but then even after taking all the safety precautions we need to be prayerful because even some family members and close friends are still capable of doing evil things….
That said Cynthia, may your sins be forgiven and may the tears and prayers of your loved once intercede for u.. RIP we are so sorry you went thru this. What have turned man against his fellow man? The lust for frivolities. Ds is so so sad.. Lucy u r so on point.. RIP Cynthia!! She was so beautiful!! You pple should be ashamed of yourselves for judging someone you have never met.. With all the accounts, it seems she met this guys online became friends with them, they gained a level of trust with her and boom!!
They knew she had a good business and she hinted she needed stock in her store.. Oh dear…this is really very sad… Whatever the reason may have been, no one deserves to die like that ….. How would her parents be feeling right now?!? O ma se oh!
Thanks for giving us a true information about who cynthia really was. Friends be wise. Being overly judgemental is a no no for people hurting. P Cynthia. Joshua Ibis. Sorry for this, may God console her family, learn from this, social networking is where you say hi and go off it, dont develop real physical friendship here, especially in this dubious nation. What will be, will be! Lets think on this, Repent and believe in the Lord Jesus and you shall be saved.
Miss Petite Nigeria Blog. She was so beautiful. She would tell me her dreams of being a supermodel.. Our protection n help comes 4rm God. I can remeba tellin 2of ma fwends ma plans shud incase anitin funny happens. Nt everyone can be lucky. We can stop meeting new fwends…. So sad 4 Cynthia…. I have had pretty bad experience myself,was almost rape,not from a stranger bt friend I knew way back when. This is a wicked world! This is so painful and sad to hear the level wickedness exited by some Nigerians.
My dear cynthia May your gentle soul rest in peace. Cynthia, I was shot of words, when i had this sad news, Anyway Cynthia osokogu,R. P May ur killer no no peace in Jesus name Amen,. Ladies, lets be careful about meeting new people and giving out information to people who we dont know too well. I met my ex on fb as well we dated for more than a year before I finally met him, we spent days in d hotel.
Lemmie say whn you r close to someone you jus dnt think abt any security. She ws jus so unlucky. Cld av happened to anyone so plz dnt judge her. Nobody knws hw long she kept her friendship wit dose guys fr her to av trusted them so much to allw them lodged her. Learn frm ds if you wish but please dnt judge her. I keep thinking, what could she have done differently?
Not use the social media? Not make new friends, not become ambitious, not travel for business, not lodge in a hotel, not trust people? None of these things are wrong to do. I guess the real question is; why did they refuse to do it? Are we somehow responsible for the actions of those young men who murdered that girl? Can you without a doubt beat your chest and say through my thoughts and actions I am innocent of her fate? RIP Cynthia, we failed you as a community. I pray your next community is kind to you.
I extend my condolences to the family and friends of the bereaved. I believe that social media has been a revolution to the world just as mobile phones have. Social media is simply another way of communicating with people. People should not really misunderstand the purpose for these websites and think they are bad.
I work in the research community in the UK and have come to understand that technology is what you make of it. It can be evil if you use it to do evil or good if you use it to do good. It cannot inherit any attribute by itself except that which the user gives to it. All the negative criticisms are unfairly passed on these websites. We live in a world filled with misguided consciences and thoughts.
People are chasing their own causes and not afraid to rid others in their path. My only advice to young people is to be sensible and know your left from your right. There are good and bad people online just as there are in the real world.
Even on this page, we can see the difference of opinions. Once again, I extend sincere condolences to the family and friends of the bereaved.
News, this is a lesson to young girls that always visit guys they just mate online but remember that our country Nigeria is full of evil, my dear what shelly profit you to gain the whole world and loose your soul?
So be warning. Cynthia may your gentle perfect soul rest in peace Amen. God judges everyone on two things and two things alone On you ur faith and the content of ur heart. Cynthia, you friend Ene has told us how you love life and with your wonderful heart,you know to live it.
We and friends you left behind will miss that heart. Kudos to the Nigeria Police, as for the culprit they must face justice. Adieu Cynthia. Something tells me that they have an accomplice who works with the hotel.
Hope the person is caught too. God will surely serve justice to these young me who took advantage of an enterprising young woman. We can judge her all we can about her not been smart but truth remains that no one is above mistake. God only you can save us from this shackles. Why didnt she discuss this plan with any1: family, friends, etc?
Cheiiiii, we have thrown caution to d wind!!! Total Strangers!!!! May her soul rest in peace and may we learn from this story, Amen! The whole thing is like a dream or can i say home video ,Thank God for Nigerian police, they really tried this time arround.
GOD have mercy. D Fairy GodSister. I hope these guys being arraigned now are the actual killers and not unfortunate youth paraded by an overzealous and often inept Police under pressure to perform because of her parentage. Abeg…i won suggest make dem kill those guys slowly make dem feel d pain dat girl go tru b4 she die…or better still make dem cut their d-…those guys are heartless….
Your God is really fighting for you. This shows that you have pure heart when u are alive. Why are their faces hidden. Can the micro-phones be put any closer to his mouth. I guess I am generally pissed about this ladies death.
Stop making friend over the Internet!!!!!!!. The life you save my just be yours. Must they take her life? Wicked people, it was their type that endlessly raped a girl in ABSU for hours and till date nothing has been done about that incident.
This situation is sooo heartbreaking. Cynthia was such a beautiful girl with so much promise. Why would these bastards kill her? They raped her…took her money…took her dignity. Why her life too? God is teAuthor and the finisher of everything.
Believe dat dis guys must ve useed charms on dis girl. Your email address will not be published. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Connect with us. News Road to Justice We invited her to come to Lagos to buy goods at cheap prices".
Cynthia Udoka Osokogu. Related Topics: Cynthia Udoka Osokogu. Miss Mo August 23, at am. Peppa August 23, at am. IzyOla October 13, at pm. Teefah August 23, at am. HRS August 23, at am. Austin Uche August 23, at am. Whatever the truth is, Cynthia trusted her new friends and had no idea that they had sinister plans. What we know is that, these 2 young men picked Cynthia up from the airport in Lagos and drove her to a hotel in Festac.
At the hotel, they tied her up, robbed her of all the money she brought to shop for her business and strangled her to death. They then left the hotel and quickly deleted her from their facebook friend list to remove any trace of their connection.
The hotel found her body and since her ID cards and mobile phone had been stolen, they could not identify her or call friends and family. Her body was deposited in a morgue in Lagos. All this time, her family and friends were praying for her safe return. How the Killers Were Caught? That was our Cynthia, Others first. The security Situation in our country now is horrible at best, people are kidnapped, robbed and killed everyday, why is it so hard to believe that a young girl was killed while going to pursue her legitimate business?
If It was a man who was killed would we have come up with all these stories? If it was an older woman or someone not so attractive would we still? Her crime is being, young, pretty and a business woman. Hmmm, People, Have the decency to let us mourn in peace. Aishatu Ene Ella. Charlez Blog. Follow Us! Paradise on Earth. Style has never been a strong point of mine, but if Cynthia bought it or asked me to buy it I knew it was good and stylish.
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