Should i confront a backstabber

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Don't expect me to rise to the occasion because I usually slide over it! How to Confront a Backstabber!! Share this: Share Twitter LinkedIn. Like this: Like Loading Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:. Email required Address never made public. Name required. Currency Converter Get Widget. Schulz "There's a difference between a philosophy and a bumper sticker.

A… 1 week ago RT aviationbrk : DHL disabled on the runway at Lahore Airport after bursting its tires following a rejected takeoff due to an engine fa… 1 week ago. Flickr Photos. But I have a good boss who stands by me and knows what these people are like and stands up for me. My family member had an opportunity get me closer to getting out of the house because this job pays high.

In person this person was supportive but I found that today that when it came down it through an other person. It was all fake to them, they lead me on. I will succeed with out them , it will just be more difficult. I always face this issue, an I really do not understand why God sends such kind of people in my life to make my life hell.

A girl in office whom I considered friend hung out with me for 3 years. I got her jobs in companies and she chose the best one for her, and when I came back from wedding, she ganged up with girls against me and making faces and troubling me at office with no guilt and regret for her actions.

Also there was a guy who was in need of money and I gave him money despite me going through a tough phase of divorce where I needed money to fight my case. He then didnt return my money and has stopped receiving my calls or replying to my messages. How do I stop becoming emotional fool. I think of cutting off the social circle completely due to loss in trust in humanity. Today we got to work and he told the employee to stay off her phone at work because I did all the work yesterday and as soon as he seen that I was busy at the computer he walks up front and whispers something in her ear.

I knew when he started to go out front what he was going to do and I quietly walked out and saw him whispering to her. I asked him why he had to whisper to her and he made some stupid excuse. This is the straw that broke the camels back for me. Smart friends, family and colleagues will see this and respect and appreciate you for being stable, diplomatic and professional.

They will then assess the backstabbers behaviour and see the toxic backstabber for the low lying scum that they are. Bully and backstabbing crosses all jobs. Instead of concentrating on being the best dr possible for my patients I am letting her lies and contempt make me doubt myself alot. I dont know what to do anymore. I guess just go silent around her and imagine myself some place else while I am at work. I hope she drops dead tonight and her soul gets trapped in the fiery bowels of hell.

Doctor, I have the same situation in my office, I am an Admin Supervisor and this subordinate was a very tricky person. Know what? I am praying for this person and I am trying not to talk my personal life with this person. I kept distance and talk only work related matters. This person was like a snake, so subtle but poisonous. Beware with this kind of people. Be wise in dealing with them. Calm yourself, talk only work related matters and brace yourself. Take care.

You are the best, you are awesome and you are the best. My 2 children are in medical fields also. Be strong and God is the best friend of all. I agree with Maria above. Backstabbers succeed because of they recruit others into a group mob to attack the unlucky person that has offended, angered or made them jealous. The only thing that seems to work is get other people to support you especially at work so they can protect you against malicious attacks and also keep far away from the backstabber and their friends.

Most of the time if they are doing it at work you are threat and they are trying to get rid of the competition. Thanks for all the tips about how to behave when around a back stabbed.

By ensuring my behavior is true to my core values of Excellence, Love, and Truth, something that I already strive to do every day.

I thought it was a huge stamp of approval coming from him as he is already in his 60s, has set up and IPO -ed countless businesses, and has worked with countless people in the 40 over years he has spent in the business world. His comment reminded me that as long as I do my thing and live true to my conscience, people will naturally know what I stand for as a person.

You show people you are a good person not by saying you are one or even putting down others , but by taking actions consistent with what you define as being a good human being. At the end of the day after you live true to yourself, people are still free to make their own conclusions.

Some may choose to negatively judge you despite everything you do. However, as long as you know your values and take actions consistent with them, your actions will shine more brightly than whatever people try to say about you. I always believe there is something to learn from every situation. This incident is no different. From this episode, I learned quite a few things about myself, surrounding my fears, anxieties, and treatment of friendships.

I learned to be more appreciative of true friends who have always been there for me. I also learned that I can be dead wrong in my judgment sometimes, and what I think is my intuition can just be a bad oversight. Above all, I learned to stick to my guns and stay true to what I stand for, instead of shirking myself out of fear of non-conformance with the world. If you are serious about creating an impact, you are bound to ruffle some feathers here and there. Other people can put you down but you will always have your voice.

In the big picture of things, the incident was just insignificant. For example, we have a meteorite that just hit Russia , injuring over 1, people. Up north, we have North Korea doing secret nuclear tests. Down south, kids in South Africa are dying every day due to famine and diseases. Then over in America, fundamental social issues beg looking into.

The number of homeless people in New York City continues to rise every year. Schools in the U. Feel those emotions, vent to your friends if you have to, and then get over it.

There are so many other things to concern yourself in life. Why let yourself be bothered by something as tiny as this? Rather than harp on the negative, why not divert your energy to the positive things in your life and build on them?

What are your long-term goals? What are your short-term goals?